I had a friend recently chat with me about a
situation that was happening in their life with a mutual friend not being
supportive. When I presented a few different ideas - asked some questions
on the other person's perspective - I heard "Oh, no, I know they are
blowing me off!" I stepped back and thought "Wait, there may be
some assuming going on here." There was no evidence to suggest that
was happening but my friend was positive this is what was happening.
How hard is it for us to ...